Microwave Madam

She’s new to the building and here’s what they say
she has a career, and is out at work all day.
Comes home late from the office, is NEVER around
to chat with the women, when they all gather down.

She dresses different from the stay-at-home wives
they think it would be exciting to have her life.
Washing machine, dish-washer, and a MICROWAVE
plus a vacuum cleaner – no need for a maid.

For her 9 to 5 is usually 7 to 7
On days that are busy she’s home after 11.
They called her Microwave Madam because she was different,
but now their daughters have lives that make hers seem simple.

9 to 5 which really is 7 to 7
On days they’re busy they’re home after 11.
It’s the life that they wanted for their daughters
to have a career, and still be head cook and bottle washer.


The term ‘head cook and bottle washer’ is an idiom used to describe someone who is in charge and also handles minor details.

This is my story, and the story of every Indian woman who is the first in her community to have a career. Those were the days that the microwave was new to the Indian market, and families with women at home full-time often didn’t need the convenience. And thought that women who did were too hi-tech or too different.

Yes, Microwave Madam was me 🙂

Published by Anitaelise

Piano Teacher, Poet, Relaxed Housekeeper & Blogger

2 thoughts on “Microwave Madam

Leave a Reply (your email address will remain confidential)

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

<span>%d</span> bloggers like this: